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50 Shades of Customized Alimony Provisions

Chantale Suttle • April 28, 2023
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Alimony is not a one-size-fits-all deal in prenuptial agreements or in postnups. Your prenup can provide for customized alimony, otherwise known as spousal support, that is as unique as your circumstances.

 

Chapter 61 of the Florida Statutes covers prenuptial agreements and allows the parties to draft with respect to the “establishment, modification, waiver, or elimination of spousal support” (Fla. Stat. § 61.079).

 

While some prenups (and postnups) waive alimony completely, other couples choose other options that are available. Let’s review some couples’ approaches to alimony in martial contracts:

 

1. Waiver of Alimony

If the couple agrees that neither party should receive spousal sup[port, they can draft the prenup to waive alimony.

 

2. Limited Alimony

There is no “prefab” version of alimony. Your prenup may limit the amount and/or the duration of alimony. This method sets a “ceiling” for spousal support in identifying the most either spouse with either pay to the other, or it can set a “floor.”

 

3. Incentivized Alimony

The prenup can also provide an incentive for the higher-earning spouse to pay alimony by offering some benefit to the paying spouse. For example, the prenup could provide that if the higher-earning spouse pays alimony for a certain period of time, the lower-earning spouse will waive some other right or benefit.

 

4. Triggering Events for Alimony

The prenup can also specify certain triggering events that would require the payment of alimony, such as the birth of a child or a specific length of the marriage. This can help ensure that alimony is only awarded in specific circumstances.

 

5. Deductibility of Alimony

Alimony is not taxed. According to the IRS,  alimony is not deductible for the person paying it and not taxed for the person receiving it (for divorces finalized after January 1, 2019). For information directly from the horse's mouth, here is the IRS site.


6. Replacement Alimony

Are you currently receiving alimony? Scared your next marriage may not last...and you lost your alimony for nothing? Don't fear as long as your prenup (or postnup) includes replacement alimony. We can help with creating terms that best suit your lifestyle and goals.

 

But beware of a statutory limitation…


The prenup statute mentions this aspect of spousal support:

 

If a provision of a premarital agreement modifies or eliminates spousal support and that modification or elimination causes one party to the agreement to be eligible for support under a program of public assistance at the time of separation or marital dissolution, a court, notwithstanding the terms of the agreement, may require the other party to provide support to the extent necessary to avoid that eligibility. (Fla. Stat. § 61.079).

 

A Florida court will not honor a prenup’s clauses regarding alimony if the spouse who waived alimony becomes a dependent of the state. If you believe this situation may occur in the future, now is the time to allocation resources and to partition assets so that the prenup’s goals remain achievable and so that both spouses can resume their lives comfortably after divorce.

 

Some aspects of this overview of spousal maintenance may seem overwhelming. You're not alone. We can help you to itemize concerns and to figure out the best approach, including our mediated prenup service. Talk with us to decide on the best way of managing the terms for your agreement.


A reminder: your prenup or postnuptial agreement may address alimony, but by law, it may not address child custody or child support. Learn more here about child support and child custody law.

 

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A prenuptial or postnuptial agreement can save your business. Consider two dry cleaners, Ricky and Fred. Both thought they would be married to their wives until “death do they part.” Unfortunately, they both ended up divorced. Ricky walked out of divorce court personally and professionally ruined. Fred, while emotionally drained, was able to maintain and grow his successful business. Why the different outcomes? Ricky’s Story Ricky owned a dry cleaning business with Lucy, his wife of 19 years. Ricky was in charge of all aspects of the business, but Lucy did manage the company’s payroll and vendors part-time. Occasionally, she worked the front counter. For the most part, Lucy raised the children and cared for her elderly parents. When they decided to divorce, Ricky and Lucy were still civil and wanted their divorce to be amicable. Ricky and Lucy worked together, without lawyers, to craft a plan for sharing time with their teenage sons, and for sharing the family’s expenses. 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Much of the cost of providing the information and documents, and defending business decisions, must be paid by the business. Scared and desperate, Ricky lawyered up too. Unfortunately, Ricky’s lawyer couldn’t advise him on the settlement terms proposed by Lucy’s lawyer without conducting his own analysis of the company’s voluminous records. Much of the paper work involved in operating a dry cleaning business was foreign to him, and the stringent environmental regulations and reporting was overwhelming. Ricky’s lawyer had to hire his own accountant to help value the business for the divorce. Ricky and Lucy were now far from civil with one another, and the mud began to fly. Faced with dueling accountants, complicated and conflicting arguments about the business’s finances and value, and accusations against Ricky of financial wrongdoing, the family court judge appointed an independent forensic accountant to advise the court. The independent accountant saw that the business, which was the couple’s biggest asset, was crumbling because the ugly divorce was keeping Ricky from focusing on the business. The accountant was also worried about the accusations of financial wrongdoing by Ricky. So, on the independent accountant’s recommendation, the court appointed a receiver to operate and protect the dry cleaning business. Ricky and Lucy were now paying six different professionals, and trial was still months away. The receiver discovered that the company’s records did not comply with dry cleaning waste disposal regulations, and reported the non-compliance to government authorities. Ricky and Lucy blamed each other for the missing paperwork, and the sour relationship between them stalled and ultimately prevented joint efforts at an amnesty program and damage control. The business began to accrue daily statutory fines, employees were laid off, debts mounted, and the business eventually shut its doors while Ricky and Lucy continued to fight in divorce court. A year later, with no business to provide income for Ricky or Lucy, Ricky agreed to settle by paying Lucy more than half of his share of the house. Lucy accepted the offer, even though it was smaller then what she expected originally, because her share of the house was pledged to pay her lawyer’s fees. Fred’s Story Fred was married to Ethel for 22 years, and they have a daughter. Like Ricky and Lucy, Fred ran the business while Ethel was involved part-time in just certain aspects. But unlike Ricky and Lucy, when Fred bought his dry cleaning business nine years earlier, Fred and Ethel signed a postnuptial agreement to protect each other in case of divorce. The attorney-drafted agreement laid out a strict structure for evaluating and dividing the business, and for determining Fred’s true income for spousal and child support calculations. It identified and limited the financial information and documents that the business would have to disclose. It also required that the couple use a single neutral accountant (who would be paid from marital property and not by the company), to gather and evaluate that financial information and documentation. Early in the divorce, Ethel agreed that the postnuptial agreement was valid. She waived any right to ask the court to force the company to disclose more information or documents than described in the postnuptial agreement. This entitled Ethel to an immediate, fair, and higher award of support, thanks to a provision that she and Fred put in the agreement to encourage a quick resolution. Within a month, Fred and Ethel’s divorce was finalized, with minimal attorneys’ and accountant fees, and with no interference or intrusion into the dry cleaning business or operations. How could two similarly situated businesses and families leave divorce court with such different results? The first story is horrifying, but exceedingly common. Many states have onerous disclosure requirements that unnecessarily burden the time and finances of a small business. Unscrupulous divorce lawyers are trained to hone in and target a business owner’s fear of having the business’s confidential and financial information exposed to the world, to induce an early and usually unfair settlement. Fair and careful divorce lawyers will also want extensive company records, because they fear being liable for giving bad advice if they make recommendations without investigating the whole picture themselves. Either way, good lawyer or a bad one, smart judge or not, a case involving a small business can be very costly. The best way to avoid being a Ricky, is to get a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement like Fred. A good prenuptial or postnuptial agreement can render the most intrusive and damaging financial disclosures unnecessary, and can limit or attribute the related costs away from the business. In some situations, as shown above, they can save the business itself. If Ricky had a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement in place, maybe a receiver would not have been necessary, and Ricky and Lucy could have resolved the business’s regulatory problems confidentially without going out of business. Ricky and Fred were not wrong to believe in their marriages. A life-long commitment is not fanciful; it is a hopeful and beautiful goal. Most couples think they will reach that goal and that other couples will fill our country’s depressing divorce statistics. But consider this, we buy life insurance, install security systems, and wear seat belts “just in case.” They give us security even if we think that odds will always be in our favor. A careful and thorough prenuptial or postnuptial agreement can provide you, your spouse, and your business with security that all will be protected in a divorce, and that years of building a life and a business will not be burned to the ground. Chantale Suttle is the Managing Attorney and Founder of DADvocacy™ Law Firm, which is headquartered in Miami, Florida. She has been in the exclusive practice of family law for over 21 years and has served countless small business owners in divorce court. Drafting prenuptial and postnuptial agreements for small business owners is her favorite work.
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